A smile and a wave

Now that the gyms are closed (temporarily, because of the virus), I’ve switched my workouts to long runs.

My favorite routes are ones with scenic views, easy distance markers, and—very importantly—ones where I’m likely to cross paths with other people.

There’s something nice about the limited social interaction of bumping into some stranger on the path, for a few seconds only, and then never seeing them again. There is almost no chance of any negative event.

If relationships can be thought of as extended transactions between people (an exchange of ideas, affection, experiences, etc.), then bumping into someone on the path is the most perfect micro-transaction.

The interaction can be really uplifting. Some people smile or sneak a quick howdy in between their accelerated breathing. There’s a guy I’ve seen a few times now who waves at you with a big smile, as if you’re long-time co-workers just walking past each other in the office hallway. Genuine smiles that acknowledge your existence and say hey, we’re in this together are the best.

Then, there are a bunch of people who don’t mind you at all. They don’t even look your way. Still, that’s not a bad experience.

I make it a point to, at least, make eye contact with everyone I meet. Then, if our eyes meet, I’ll give a smile. If I’m feeling bold, I’ll hit’em with the wave.

The whole thing seems like an insignificant gesture, but these short interactions make my day.